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When parent and adult child want to heal but keep repeating old patterns

My adult daughter and I have been trying to repair our relationship after years of tension, but we keep falling into the same old patterns where she shuts down and I get defensive. We both want to do this differently but we don't know how to break out of the dynamic we've built over decades.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The very wounds that make healing necessary also make it nearly impossible, trapping both people in behaviors that recreate what they're trying to transcend.

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