My adult daughter calls me multiple times a day for advice on everything from what to eat for lunch to major life decisions, and I realize I've never taught her to trust her own judgment because I get anxious when she struggles. We're both starting to see that our closeness might actually be keeping her from growing up.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your love expresses itself through solving rather than witnessing, creating dependency where confidence should grow.
“Where Are You with Codependence?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.