Periagoge
Scenario

When close friends start competing over dating and relationships

My best friend and I are both in our late thirties and single and we've started competing with each other in ways we never used to — comparing dating app matches, getting weird when the other has a good date, making little digs about each other's choices. We both want to find someone but this thing between us is making us mean to each other and I don't know how to stop it without losing the friendship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who love each other are letting scarcity thinking around romance poison the very intimacy that could sustain them through the search.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Single and Searching?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.