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Scenario

When friends struggle to support each other across different types of loss

My best friend and I are both widows but her husband died after a long cancer battle while mine died in a car crash, and when we try to support each other we keep stepping on invisible landmines about preparation, final words, and what counts as 'worse.' We're losing each other when we need each other most.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people united by the fact of widowhood are discovering that the manner of their losses creates a chasm that threatens the very friendship that could sustain them.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sudden loss vs. expected loss?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.