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Scenario

When friends heal from similar trauma at different paces

My best friend and I both went through divorces at the same time and bonded over it, but now that she's dating again and happy, I feel left behind and resentful in ways that make me hate myself.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that shared wounds don't guarantee synchronized healing, creating unexpected loneliness within intimate friendship.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief for lost possibility — paths not taken?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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