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When long friendships change after major life transitions and both people feel the loss

My best friend and I have been close for fifteen years but since she got married, something has shifted and we both feel it but neither of us knows how to name what's different or whether it's just growing up or something we should fight for.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are mourning the same relationship while still being in it, unsure whether change means death or transformation.

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