Periagoge
Scenario

When friends develop feelings for the same person and avoid the conversation

My best friend and I have been drawn to the same person for months and we've been dancing around it with jokes and hints instead of just saying it outright. We both know we're interested in them and we both know the other knows, but neither of us wants to be the one who makes it weird between us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of losing a friendship is preventing two people from having the honest conversation that might actually preserve it.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Eros — Greek desire and its wisdom?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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