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Scenario

When life plans with a close friend start feeling misaligned

My best friend and I have been planning to move to the same city after college for two years, but now that it's actually happening I'm realizing I might need something different than what we talked about, and I don't know how to bring it up without feeling like I'm abandoning our dream or our friendship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A shared vision is quietly becoming a constraint, and honesty threatens to feel like betrayal.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-Term Partnership and Commitment?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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