My best friend and I have been so close for fifteen years that people mistake us for a couple, and now she's getting married and I'm realizing I don't know how to love her without being the most important person in her life. We've never talked about what happens to us when her primary allegiance shifts, and I'm terrified of becoming possessive or resentful.
More people experience this than they realize.
The transition from being someone's primary emotional relationship to sharing that space requires renegotiating the very foundation of how you love each other.
“Where Are You with Friendship as love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.