My best friend has been struggling with addiction for two years and I've become the person who covers for her, lies for her, and basically enables her while telling myself I'm helping. We both know I'm not actually helping but she needs me to keep doing it and I need to feel needed and neither of us knows how to break this cycle.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your care has become a cage that traps you both in roles that prevent real healing.
“Where Are You with Codependence?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.