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How to support a friend through pregnancy loss without harmful platitudes

My best friend lost her baby six months ago and I keep catching myself about to say things like 'everything happens for a reason' even though I know better. We've been close for fifteen years but now every conversation feels like I'm walking through a minefield and I'm terrified of saying something that will damage what we have.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Grief exposes the inadequacy of our usual comforts, leaving even intimate friendships feeling fragile and uncertain.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What not to say to a grieving person?”

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