My best friend lost her mom two months ago and I keep catching myself saying things like 'at least she's not suffering anymore' because the silence feels so heavy. She's started responding to my texts less and I think I'm pushing her away when I'm trying to help.
More people experience this than they realize.
The impulse to fill grief's silence with silver linings is creating distance when connection is most needed.
“Where Are You with What not to say to a grieving person?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.