My brother and I are both in relationships now but we grew up in a house where love was conditional and explosive, and we realize we're both struggling to believe we're worthy of the kind of stable love our partners offer us. We've never talked about this directly but I think we're both sabotaging good relationships because we don't trust them.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're seeing how childhood wounds around love are playing out in both your adult relationships in similar self-defeating ways.
“Where Are You with The examined love life — what it means to love well?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.