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Scenario

When siblings in recovery can't reconcile their shared trauma

My brother and I are both three years sober but we can't talk about our dad's drinking without one of us shutting down or getting defensive about how we each survived that house. We love each other but there's this gulf between our versions of the same story and I don't know how to bridge it without losing the progress we've both made.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who survived the same addiction-affected childhood are discovering that healing individually doesn't automatically heal the space between them.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The grief of addiction — losing yourself and others?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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