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Scenario

When siblings clash over aging parent care decisions

My brother and I are both trying to care for our aging mother but we have completely different ideas about what she needs, and every conversation about her care turns into us relitigating childhood dynamics we thought we'd moved past. We both love her fiercely but we can't seem to get on the same page about anything, and I'm worried our disagreements are making everything harder for her.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The challenge of caring for someone you both love becomes entangled with unresolved family patterns, making collaboration feel impossible even when it's most needed.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Bhakti — Hindu devotional love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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