My brother and I are both trying to care for our mom who has dementia, but we have completely different ideas about what's best for her and every conversation about it turns into us fighting about who dad would have wanted to make these decisions. We're exhausting ourselves and probably confusing her even more.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love the same person are letting their grief and different ways of showing care create division when unity is what's needed most.
“Where Are You with Buddhist Brahmaviharas in Relationship?”
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