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Scenario

When siblings disagree about handling a parent's belongings after death

My brother and I are going through our mom's things six months after she died and we keep getting stuck on what to keep, what feels like betrayal to give away, and how differently we remember her. We both feel guilty about different things and can't seem to talk about it without one of us shutting down.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that grief makes even shared memories feel isolating, and guilt is preventing them from being honest about their different relationships with loss.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and guilt?”

Peri

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