My brother and I are trying to figure out care for our aging parents and we have such different relationships with them, different financial situations, different availability, but we keep pretending like we should naturally agree on everything. We're both getting resentful and our parents can feel the tension.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're trying to create fairness in a situation that's inherently unequal and avoiding the grief you both carry about what's changing.
“Where Are You with Love in Later Life and Aging Partnership?”
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