Periagoge
Scenario

When long-distance family crisis reveals unequal emotional labor

My brother and I are trying to support our mom through her divorce but he's three time zones away and I'm the one handling all the day-to-day stuff, and we keep getting into fights about what support looks like when one of us can only show up virtually.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Geographic distance has exposed fundamental differences in how you each define presence, responsibility, and care during crisis.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-Distance Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.