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Scenario

When longtime friend groups grow in different directions

My closest friend group from college stayed tight for fifteen years but now we're all in such different life phases that our group texts feel performative and our rare hangouts feel forced. We keep trying to be who we used to be together instead of figuring out who we are now.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

They are mourning the end of one version of their friendship while being afraid to discover what the next version might become.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and faith — when loss challenges belief?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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