My closest friend is going through a divorce and I want to support her but she's making choices I think are destructive and I don't know how to be honest with her without losing her. She needs me to be on her side but sometimes being on her side feels like watching her hurt herself.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love sometimes requires you to risk the relationship in service of the person, but knowing when you've reached that point is excruciating.
“Where Are You with Hesed — Hebrew covenantal loving-kindness?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.