My college roommate and I have lived together for three years and we've become codependent in ways that are starting to hurt both of us — we can't make social plans without checking with each other first and we've stopped growing as individuals — but neither of us knows how to create healthy space without it feeling like rejection.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people have created such a tight bond that it has become a cage, and their fear of losing closeness is preventing them from becoming who they're meant to be.
“Where Are You with Post-traumatic growth — what can grow in the soil of loss?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.