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Scenario

When divorced co-parents share unprocessed grief about their lost family

My ex-wife and I co-parent our two kids and we've both moved on in some ways but there's this unspoken grief between us about what we lost as a family unit that comes up during transitions and school events. We're functional but we've never actually acknowledged together that we're both mourning the same thing and I think our kids feel it too.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are navigating the complex mourning of a shared life while still needing to collaborate in its aftermath.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief for lost relationships — ambiguous loss of divorce?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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