My father and I have grown closer since my mother died two years ago, but sometimes I can't tell if we're genuinely connecting or if we're both just desperate not to lose another family relationship, and that uncertainty is making me pull back just when he needs me most.
More people experience this than they realize.
Loss within a family system can make remaining members question whether their increased closeness stems from genuine affection or fear-driven attachment, creating distance at the moment of greatest need.
“Where Are You with Storge — familial affection?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.