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When fertility struggles isolate couples from each other

My husband and I are trying to conceive and it's been eighteen months of negative tests and we've stopped being able to comfort each other — when I'm sad he feels helpless, when he withdraws I feel alone, and we're grieving something that doesn't exist in completely separate worlds.

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Shared hope can become shared disappointment, and disappointment can make strangers of the people who need each other most.

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