My husband and I fostered a child for two years and recently had to say goodbye when they reunited with family, and we're both grieving differently - he wants to foster again right away, I need time to process, and neither of us knows how to honor both our needs while we're heartbroken.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're both trying to heal from the same wound in ways that feel threatening to each other.
“Where Are You with Love in Later Life and Aging Partnership?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.