My husband and I had a miscarriage six months ago and we've grieved it completely differently — I want to talk about it and try again, he's withdrawn and says he needs more time, and we're both walking on eggshells around each other's pain. I don't know how to honor both of our ways of healing without losing each other in the process.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two hearts are breaking in different rhythms, each trying to protect the other while protecting themselves.
“Where Are You with Love and trauma — loving someone with a difficult past?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.