My husband and I have been together for thirty years and our bodies have changed in ways that make intimacy feel foreign and sometimes painful, but we're both too proud or scared to admit that what used to work doesn't anymore. We keep trying the same things and feeling disappointed, but neither of us knows how to start the conversation about reinventing this part of our love.
More people experience this than they realize.
The tender work of reimagining physical love as bodies age requires a vulnerability that fear often blocks.
“Where Are You with The aging body in love?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.