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Scenario

When couples stop communicating about infertility grief

My husband and I have been trying for three years and we've stopped talking about it except for logistics — when my period comes, when the next appointment is — and I can feel us both disappearing into our separate versions of this grief.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Shared loss can create parallel isolation when partners protect themselves by withdrawing from the very person who understands their pain most intimately.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The grief of infertility?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.