My husband and I have weathered some really hard things together over fifteen years and we're proud of how strong we've become as a team, but lately I've realized we only connect when there's a crisis to solve and I don't know if we remember how to just enjoy each other. When life is calm, we seem to drift into separate worlds, and I'm starting to wonder if we've become so good at surviving together that we've forgotten how to simply be together.
More people experience this than they realize.
A partnership forged in resilience has become dependent on difficulty, leaving both people unsure how to access tenderness when life is simply ordinary.
“Where Are You with Long-term partnership — sustaining love over time?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.