My husband and I keep having the same fight about money — I want to save more, he wants to enjoy what we have — but really we're fighting about completely different fears about the future that we've never actually named. Every budget conversation becomes a proxy war for things we can't say directly.
More people experience this than they realize.
The practical disagreement has become a container for deeper fears that neither of you knows how to voice.
“Where Are You with Disenfranchised grief — when loss isn't recognized?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.