My husband and I keep having the same fight where he says he's forgiven me for my drinking years but then brings up specific things I did when I was using, and I don't know if he's not really forgiving me or if I'm expecting too much from forgiveness. We're both trying but we keep getting stuck in this cycle.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're both struggling with the difference between forgiveness and forgetting, and what it means to honor the past without being trapped by it.
“Where Are You with Forgiveness in Love — What It Takes?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.