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Scenario

When couples grieve pregnancy loss differently

My husband and I lost our baby at 20 weeks six months ago and we're grieving completely differently — he wants to try again soon, I'm not sure I can go through pregnancy again, and we've both stopped saying what we actually feel because we're so afraid of hurting each other. The silence is becoming its own kind of loss.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are protecting each other from their own grief so carefully that they're losing access to the very comfort they could offer one another.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Conflict in love — how every tradition addresses it?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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