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When couples rebuild after infidelity but aren't sure if they've truly healed

My husband had an affair three years ago and we stayed together, went to therapy, did the work — but now I find myself wondering if I forgave him or if I just got really good at managing my anger, and he seems afraid to ask me the same question.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The difference between performing recovery and actually recovering creates a shared uncertainty that neither person wants to voice first.

Ideas that help explain it
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