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When couples have completely different sex drives

My husband wants sex maybe twice a month and I want it almost every day and we've gotten into this awful pattern where I feel rejected and he feels pressured and now we both just avoid the topic entirely. We love each other deeply but this difference is creating a distance that feels bigger every week.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

When desire itself becomes a source of mutual wounding, silence offers only the illusion of peace.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The Desire Gap in Partnership?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.