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When family members have different approaches to dementia care

My mom and I both take care of my grandmother with Alzheimer's, but mom still talks to her like she's going to remember things and I've accepted that she won't, and now we're fighting about the right way to love someone who's disappearing.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Divergent grief responses to progressive loss are creating conflict instead of shared support.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief for lost identity — who you were before?”

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