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When families avoid discussing a terminal diagnosis

My mom is dying and my family keeps trying to make everything normal and cheerful when she's around, but I think she knows and I think she wants to talk about it. We're all protecting each other from conversations that maybe we all actually need to have.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group of people who love each other are choosing a familiar kind of suffering over an unknown kind of honesty.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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