My mom is dying and my sister and I are sharing caregiving duties, but we've never talked about our different relationships with her or how differently this is hitting us. We're coordinating medical appointments and medications efficiently but we're not really supporting each other emotionally, and I think we both feel alone in this.
More people experience this than they realize.
The administrative demands of death can become a way to avoid the emotional reality that two people are losing the same person in entirely different ways.
“Where Are You with Meaning-making after devastating loss?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.