My mom is getting older and needs more help but my two sisters live across the country and I'm here doing everything and we're all pretending this is a temporary arrangement. The resentment is building and none of us knows how to have the conversation about what happens next.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've fallen into a pattern of caretaking that feels sustainable to everyone except the person doing it.
“Where Are You with Hesed — Hebrew covenantal loving-kindness?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.