My mother-in-law lost her husband three weeks ago and keeps apologizing for crying when we visit, saying she knows we don't want to hear about it. My husband and I realize we've been asking 'how are you doing?' then immediately changing the subject when she actually answers.
More people experience this than they realize.
Discomfort with emotional honesty creates a cycle where grieving people learn to hide their pain to protect others.
“Where Are You with What not to say to a grieving person?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.