My oldest friend and I went through a falling out three years ago and we've slowly been rebuilding our friendship, but there are still things we don't talk about and I can feel us both being more careful than we used to be, and I don't know if this is just what friendship looks like after damage or if we're settling for less than we could have.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are navigating the question of whether caution is wisdom or limitation, and whether what feels like healing might actually be a form of managed distance.
“Where Are You with Love across difference — race class faith culture?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.