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Scenario

When both partners fear repeating their parents' relationship dynamic

My partner and I are getting serious about marriage but we're both terrified because we each watched one parent completely lose themselves in the relationship while the other stayed mysteriously untouchable. We want to commit but we don't know how to do it without one of us disappearing or both of us staying too separate.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire for intimacy is haunted by inherited templates that offer only unacceptable extremes.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Your Parents' Relationship and How It Shaped Yours?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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