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Scenario

When couples struggle with certainty and 'knowing' in long-term relationships

My partner and I have been living together for two years and I love them but I keep wondering if this is 'it' — like shouldn't I just know if they're the person I want to marry, and the fact that I'm not sure feels like maybe we're not meant to be.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The cultural expectation of romantic certainty is creating doubt about a relationship that might actually be working.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Western Romantic Love Myth?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.