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Scenario

When long-term couples lose intimacy despite loving each other

My partner and I have been together for seven years and we've gotten so good at being a functional team that somewhere along the way we stopped being lovers, and when we try to address it we both get performance anxiety about our own relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people have become so skilled at one way of loving that they've forgotten how to access other ways, and now the very effort to remember feels artificial.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love across difference — race class faith culture?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.