My partner and I have been together for seven years and we've gotten so good at being a functional team that somewhere along the way we stopped being lovers, and when we try to address it we both get performance anxiety about our own relationship.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people have become so skilled at one way of loving that they've forgotten how to access other ways, and now the very effort to remember feels artificial.
“Where Are You with Love across difference — race class faith culture?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.