My partner and I have been together for three years and lately we both feel like we're performing desire rather than feeling it — going through the motions because we think we should want each other the way we used to. We're both pretending it's fine but I can see in their eyes the same question I'm carrying: is this what happens to passion or are we doing something wrong?
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are caught between the mythology of eternal passion and the reality of desire's natural rhythms, afraid to speak honestly about what they're experiencing together.
“Where Are You with Eros — Greek desire and its wisdom?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.