My partner and I have been together for three years and we both say we love each other constantly but when I really look at what we do together it feels more like we're just comfortable roommates who have sex sometimes. We're trying to figure out if what we have is actually love or just a really nice arrangement we're both afraid to leave.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are grappling with the gap between the words they use for their bond and the lived reality of their connection.
“Where Are You with Romantic love — what it is and what it isn't?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.