My partner and I have different love languages and we've read all the books, but knowing that I need words and they need touch doesn't actually help when I'm starving for verbal affirmation and they're hurt that I stiffen when they reach for me. We understand each other intellectually but we're still failing each other emotionally.
More people experience this than they realize.
Intellectual frameworks for love can become another way to avoid the vulnerable work of actually feeling our way toward each other.
“Where Are You with Communication in love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.