My partner and I have this friend who we both love but who has become incredibly demanding and dramatic, and we're split on whether to set boundaries or keep showing up unconditionally. I want to protect our peace but he thinks real friendship means weathering everything, and now we're fighting about friendship more than we're actually being friends to anyone.
More people experience this than they realize.
Different philosophies of friendship create conflict not just about the friend in question, but about what kind of people you are and want to be together.
“Where Are You with Friendship as love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.