My partner and I keep having the same conversation about whether to have kids but we're not actually talking about the same thing — I'm talking about timing and they're talking about whether they even want to be a parent at all, and we've been dancing around this for months.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're having parallel conversations about fundamentally different questions, and the gap between what each of you needs to resolve is creating a chasm neither wants to acknowledge.
“Where Are You with Death of a loved one — the immediate experience?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.