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Scenario

When couples disagree about how to honor a child's memory years later

My partner and I lost our daughter three years ago and we've built this careful life around her absence, but lately we disagree about what keeping her memory alive should look like — I want to talk about her more and he thinks we've found our peace. We're both afraid of hurting each other but also losing her again in a different way.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're navigating the tender territory between different ways of loving someone who is gone.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Living with loss long-term?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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